Does anyone here have any suggestions on how to break up with your boyfriend?

Does anyone here have any suggestions on how to break up with your boyfriend?

Rain

This morning I received messages from a family whom I have never seen for a long time…I just can’t help but get sad.

Dad: “Whatever hard feelings you have for your Mom….I wish you could forget about it for your sister.”

Mom: “Are you coming on Saturday?”

Sister: “I’m getting married this weekend…I hope you could come.”

There are three reasons why I got sad. It’s not because I miss them…. I was hoping they would remember me most when I am at my most trying times. Those times when I needed a little comfort to make me feel that everything will be alright. It’s a sad thought that I am remembered only on occasions like Christmas and New Year and now a wedding, an invite 2 days before the wedding from a younger sister who I grew up with.

I’m happy and sad for the fact that she found her love and that she is ready to build her own family even if the one we had failed. I remember those days when we were kids. I remember those times when she used to ask me for advice. How I wish she could have consulted me about the wedding. I lost track of time. I guess she’s all grown up now to decide.

I do not blame them for my sadness. I know part of this sorrow is because of my firm stand to be apart from them. I am the only one left alone…….Both my brother and sister are married and Mom found a family of her own. My dad and I share the same sentiments but as I always say, things are better this way. Hence, I do not complain…sorrow accepted in exchange of happy lives.

I do not blame them for my sadness…. I only want my mourning to be respected.

What's in my name?

I was browsing through an acquaitance's blog entries and got curious about what my name means. So I checked the site and I was amazed how the description matched exactly my character.

http://www.blogthings.com/whatsyournameshiddenmeaningquiz/

You Are Powerful and Determined

You are confident, self assured, and capable. You are not easily intimidated. You master any and all skills easily. You don't have to work hard for what you want. You make your life out to be exactly how you want it. And you'll knock down anyone who gets in your way! You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection. You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive. You have the classic "Type A" personality. You are wild, crazy, and a huge rebel. You're always up to something. You have a ton of energy, and most people can't handle you. You're very intense. You definitely are a handful, and you're likely to get in trouble. But your kind of trouble is a lot of fun. You are a seeker of knowledge, and you have learned many things in your life. You are also a keeper of knowledge - meaning you don't spill secrets or spread gossip. People sometimes think you're snobby or aloof, but you're just too deep in thought to pay attention to them. You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people. You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts. You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals. You are a seeker. You often find yourself restless - and you have a lot of questions about life. You tend to travel often, to fairly random locations. You're most comfortable when you're far away from home. You are quite passionate and easily tempted. Your impulses sometimes get you into trouble. You are truly an original person. You have amazing ideas, and the power to carry them out. Success comes rather easily for you... especially in business and academia. Some people find you to be selfish and a bit overbearing. You're a strong person. You are well rounded, with a complete perspective on life. You are solid and dependable. You are loyal, and people can count on you. At times, you can be a bit too serious. You tend to put too much pressure on yourself. You are a free spirit, and you resent anyone who tries to fence you in. You are unpredictable, adventurous, and always a little surprising. You may miss out by not settling down, but you're too busy having fun to care. You are balanced, orderly, and organized. You like your ducks in a row. You are powerful and competent, especially in the workplace. People can see you as stubborn and headstrong. You definitely have a dominant personality. You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone. You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together. At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together. You are relaxed, chill, and very likely to go with the flow. You are light hearted and accepting. You don't get worked up easily. Well adjusted and incredibly happy, many people wonder what your secret to life is. You are very open. You communicate well, and you connect with other people easily. You are a naturally creative person. Ideas just flow from your mind. A true chameleon, you are many things at different points in your life. You are very adaptable. You are a very lucky person. Things just always seem to go your way. And because you're so lucky, you don't really have a lot of worries. You just hope for the best in life. You're sometimes a little guilty of being greedy. Spread your luck around a little to people who need it. You are incredibly wise and perceptive. You have a lot of life experience. You are a natural peacemaker, and you are especially good at helping others get along. But keeping the peace in your own life is not easy. You see things very differently, and it's hard to get you to budge.

R E S P E C T

I do not deserve to be treated this way…To be treated like someone stupid…To be treated like it’s ok not to communicate…To be thinking that I’m ok even without hearing from you… To be waiting like ages and thinking like you don’t give a damn…To be feeling like I haven’t surrendered my everything….To be feeling like I haven’t given my best….To be loving you but being taken for granted.

I do not deserve to be treated this way…..I felt your heart needed a jolt…

I do not deserve to be treated this way…….Still I chose to love you.